One of the biggest matrixes running the modern world? Hook-up culture. Yep, the fast-food version of intimacy. Swipe right, get off, repeat. No emotional nutrients, just the illusion of connection. It’s sex as entertainment, not embodiment. And sure, people say, “It’s fine, we’re both on the same page,” but here’s the plot twist: energy doesn’t sign that waiver.

Intimacy is never just physical. It’s energetic. It’s an exchange between souls. It’s literally a transfer of life force. And women -biologically, spiritually- feel that exchange more deeply. We’re the portals through which life enters the planet. We’re wired for creation, not transaction. So yeah, when we open our bodies, it’s not just “casual.” We give. And if that giving isn’t sacred, it drains.

Religions tried to warn us, but they coded it wrong. “Wait until marriage,” they said. But the real meaning got lost under all the ceremony and control. It was never about a contract or a priest. It was about alignment. About waiting until your energy, and the person you share it with come from a grounded, conscious, sacred place. Not fear, not lust, not loneliness. Alignment.

Because when you hold your energy, when you stop scattering it like confetti to anyone who gives you a fraction of attention, you become magnetic. You start to feel like home in your own body. You stop chasing validation and start attracting resonance.

And honestly? In a world where the “third date” apparently means sex, I just… don’t subscribe. My nervous system has been through enough rewiring to know that if someone isn’t aligned, it’s a no. And I don’t negotiate with my intuition anymore.

The whole point is awareness. Not judgment, awareness. Knowing that every thought, every action, every connection ripples out. There’s a material consequence and an energetic one.

Emotions aren’t meant to be controlled, they’re meant to be felt and integrated. Thoughts, though? Those you can train.

And that, darling, is how you become aware of the many matrixes that exist within one another. And with that awareness, you can choose the direction of your life.